Once I was about to leave for college in the morning and my dad suddenly walked up to me and said, Baby don’t do anything wrong that would tarnish the reputation of the family. I was shocked. I smiled and shook my head and left for my classes.
Some people have a very friendly relationship with their parents. Mine is not such a case. My parents are not strict on the outside but one thing is sure that they mean what they say. They are sometimes friendly, sometimes very formal. My mother often takes a sarcastic note on my behaviour.
Also, they don’t tell me what to do and what not to do like typical parents do. They expect me to understand the situation and do the right thing on myself.
You can fly as high as you want.
But remember that a flying kite is always bound by its threads.
Your parents, who gave you wings and set you free so that you can achieve the sky
And at the same time they keep you safe from the storm.
Never forget your roots.
Growing up came quickly.
This year my friends and I had planned a night out outside main city. It was the first time I really wanted to go outside city with friends and chill. So, I told my parents that I have to attend an event in college which will extend overnight and I’ll stay in hostel.
They said, yes. I was amused that they believed on my cooked up story. So, when we actually went for the trip, it went well. We had fun and we were safe. Nothing unusual happened except the fact that I was really guilty that my parents trust me so much and I lied to them for such a stupid one day get away with friends.
The cute fact is when I returned home tired, they asked me how the event went and dad worried that I couldn’t sleep well in the hostel. Oh my God. I swear that I felt moment that these guys love me so much and I’m doing all this.
This incident made me realise the importance I have in their lives and they are in mine.
And you’re not supposed to look back.
You’re supposed to be keep going.
So, forget whatever mishaps you did.
Your parents will always hold your kite and never let go of it.
Sometimes you may feel that the thread is broken,
but no there might be some bends,
but the thread can never break.
Family is not a special thing. Family is everything. Family is going to love you no matter how you are, what you do, what you wear, how you speak. Family never judges you.
Make your parents feel your presence. They will forget what you said, what you did but they will never forget how you made them feel.
Money can’t buy happiness, but the moments you spend with them, will.
When someone says they are busy, you should know how it works. One always has a choice and you’re not a priority. Don’t make your parents feel neglected.
Home is a feeling.
Spend time with grandparents to get their wisdom. Spend time with kids to learn to take life less seriously and being happy without any reason.
If your parents had bad day at work, try to give a little extra happiness to them. Be the ocean. Giving away drops won’t change the ocean.
Finally I’d like to share what I learnt from my parents, they are very simple people. They never spend a penny on themselves but ensure that their kids get the best opportunities and never feel less.
Never regret being yourself. Because if you’re truly you then one day people are going to wish they were you.
Yeah, so you already know which people are more important. Once you start staying close to right people, the wrong one will go away. And believe me, whatever you do, your parents will never disown you.
Let’s give 2017 a fresh start. Welcome home. 🙂